Sex On The First Date....An Idea Whose Time Has Come.
Dating is hard.
First you need to find a man/woman. That's not as easy as you think, especially as you get older.
Next is the getting to know you process. First date /meeting conversation is uncomfortable. Is there any chemistry? Are we going out again?
Second date....dinner/movie/music/dancing...OY. You need to find an activity.
Third date....something that might be fun or at least you both pretend is fun.
Then there's sex....maybe. And if it's not on the third date, the idea is in play on all dates moving forward.
It's a lot of pressure....and a lot of work.
An article from Elite Daily talks about "Why You Should Always Have Sex On A First Date."
My friend Marla found the article and while chatting with her about it, I thought it really is a very good idea. I know what you're thinking....he's a guy. Of course he thinks that....but hear me out.
In my age range, first dates/meetings tend to be coffee dates. You're having a beverage, maybe sharing some cake, exchanging small talk while trying to get to know each other. You're looking to see if you like each other and hopefully finding some things in common and some chemistry. If you follow that by having sex...well...you'd really know each other then, right? RIGHT? <shrugging shoulders>
Next imagine that you've gone out with someone a few times. You really like them. You're looking forward to being intimate with them and then it turns out to be blah or even worse. You know how bad you feel when that happens? You get your hopes and dreams up that this might be the one and then you're let down...bad. Think about all the disappointment and heartache you save by learning this on the first date.
Plus, this is really about good time management. Instead of investing hours on 3-10 dates, you'd find out right away if you're compatible. If so, well that's great. If not, you've only lost a couple of hours, little money was invested and hopefully you got an orgasm out of the deal.
It really is simple common sense.
I'm looking forward to this first date sex thing becoming the norm. Now if I can only find a first date.